She gives the example of siblings who no longer speak to one another. This essay might be a useful one to share with the less patient listeners in your life. The young may not value the telling of stories, but it is so important that our stories be heard that a stranger may become the best audience.
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Why is storytelling important? If our stories are painful, telling them can help us heal.
Lustbader discusses the value of learning to accept help from others. She gives the case of a woman who was going blind, so she gave away her books to friends, keeping only a few.
Some of her friends began weekly visits where they read to her. By sharing the books with her friends in this new way, the accommodation made for her disability brought both her friends and her new joy. From the first essay, I kept thinking of people I wanted to give a copy of this book to.
It took me longer to read the book because I found so many quotations that were applicable to my life or that of others. The book is not only beautifully written, but because the perspective is so useful, I found myself wanting to lead a group of senior citizens in a discussion group about the book. Each essay could provide a focus for healthy group discussions. What would a group of seniors feel about this quotation, from the essay on giving and receiving:. Does life really get better as we age? Thomas says they are three subcultures that are shaping the way we see aging.
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The first group he calls the Denialists. The second group is the Realists. Finally, there are the Enthusiasts.
Those who choose the Enthusiast are in the smallest group, but often these people say that they aspire to be in that group, and they like to hang out with people who are. Lustbader begins her Introduction by telling us about the time she told a group of eighteen to twenty-four-year-olds not to worry.
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When I read these words, I was as surprised as the eighteen to twenty-four-year-olds that she said these words. He said she had given him hope. The woman now realized it would take time to arrive at an answer to the questions that were nagging at her.
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